Last night was our housewarming party -- looking back on things from the somber light of the next day, I'm pleased to say that it was pretty much a complete success!
We had a bit of a rough beginning: we spent too much time prepping the house (that is, shoving miscellaneous not-yet-unpacked boxes into closets) and not quite enough time prepping the food before our guests started showing up. But our partygoers were tolerant and helpful, setting out plates and napkins and pouring mixed nuts and M&Ms into various bowls as I continued to work in the kitchen. A short while after that, things started picking up, and as the evening took its course, all of my essential criteria for success were met:
One thing that we completely forgot to do was to take pictures! The best we can leave you with is a view of some of our day-after wreckage. |
Also: we had been feeling very guilty for inviting the neighbors on one side of our house, and not the neighbors on the other side -- we didn't do it because we hate them, or we're already in a neighbor-vs-neighbor feud, or something like that -- it's just that the mystery neighbors have never been home to hand an invitation to, and haven't shown themselves to say word one to us since the day we moved in.
Well, the other neighbors (who were perfectly likeable folks, and had no problem at all mingling in with our party crowd) didn't know the mystery neighbors at all, either -- the woman of the couple had been living in her house for eight years, and she couldn't tell me the owners' names, or even hazard a guess at how many people might be living in the house.
So now I don't feel so bad.
(There is occasionally a light on in the mystery neighbors' house, but it's usually a dim light in a single room, behind a windowshade that's pulled all of the way down. I hope that this isn't one of those things where the occupant died a year ago and the gardener and the utilities are still being automatically paid out of the deceased's bank account -- or a situation where someone's bought an empty house, put blackout paper over all of the windows, and gutted the innards to turn the house into a stealth marijuana greenhouse ...)
Posted by: Kevin at December 12, 2004 07:55 PM